Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Goodbye

Life is full of hardships. There are moments when we just feel like giving up. I mean, we've all been there. As I grow up, I've come to realize one of the hardest things in life are goodbyes. At one point, you'll have to leave everything and everyone you know. Say goodbye to Mom and Dad and the family and your best friends. Sometimes you lose friends. Sometimes you break up with a boy/girlfriend. It's hard to cope with leaving the people in life that you care about the most.

So how does one cope? There are definitely healthy ways and unhealthy ways. I definitely am trying to figure out how to handle it. I can always freak out, get all emotional and angry because I don't know how to deal with my emotions. Or I could bottle everything up and now say anything... just knowing that it's all going to explode at some point. There are some relationships that are bound to last forever... like the relationships you have with family members. Then there are the ones that don't have as strong of a guarantee, like friends, or even worse, significant others. How does one deal with that?

I guess one thing I have realized that the people that are meant to be in your life will be, and the ones who aren't are the ones that you will slowly stop talking to (to whom you will stop talking).

I'm still trying to figure out a way to deal with these horrible things called goodbyes. When I find out, I want to let the world know.

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